If you haven’t had the pleasure of dropping a morning deuce the following intimate details from Big Daddy Cain’s piece of outside poon should get your guts churning.

“One time we were having sex, and I was looking up at the ceiling, thinking about ‘What am I going to buy at the grocery store tomorrow? What I am going to do with my kids tomorrow?’” Ginger White revealed to The Daily Beast writer Leslie Bennetts. “One time after we had sex, I cried. He said, ‘Maybe we shouldn’t do this for a while.’ So maybe he did have a heart — or half a heart. But I knew I needed his financial help.”

She also says that Cain was not the only man in her life who gave her money.

“I’ve supported my kids and I never wanted to let my kids go without. When I was having trouble making a payment on something, there was this powerful man saying, ‘I’ll help you out.,” she said. “I remember a time when I was looking for a job, and I became separated from my first husband, John, and somebody said, ‘All you have to do is get in front of the owner of this company, and he will give you a job, because you’re pretty. And he did. The owner offered me a job, and by the end of the day, he asked me out and said, ‘I can help you with some extra money.’ So that’s what happened, for probably six months or so. I wasn’t the only one he was ‘helping.’

For White, getting men to supplement her income that way “started becoming a game,” she said. “It was easy for me to get help like that. It makes you a bit cold. You have to be just as clever as they are, just as cold as they are, just as calculating as they are—and sometimes beat them at their own game. But I don’t want to be depicted as a woman who sleeps with men for money. I am not that woman. There have been a lot of men who sensed vulnerability and dangled a carrot, but I am not a bad person. I am a loving mother who has always wanted to make her own way and give her kids the best. I never wanted to take a handout, and I’ve said no more times than I said yes. I’ve said no more times than you can write down.”

I’m only making this statement because I’m being put out there as a liar and I am very embarrassed. I would like to confirm that the rumor about Swizz Beatz cheating on Mashonda with me is absolutely true. I would also like to confirm that the rumors about Swizz “sexting” me, even in his present marriage, are absolutely true. I am also confirming that I lost my cell phone and someone else posted all the stuff that you see on the internet.

I’ve known Kasseem since 2007. We met at Solange Knowles’ (whom I do not associate with) birthday party in Houston, TX. A gentleman from Kasseem’s entourage approached me and said that someone wanted to talk to me. After I asked who it was, he pointed at Kasseem. I knew he was “Swizz Beatz”, but I did not know anything else about him. I gave him my phone number and he called me right away and invited me to eat at Katz’ Deli on Montrose Blvd. The next morning, he invited me to accompany him at Radio One (979 The Box) for his interview. Afterwards, we went back to his hotel room but we DID NOT HAVE SEX. A couple of hours later, he had to leave so he could catch his flight. He hugged and kissed me in public as if he were a single man.

Fast forward to a couple of weeks later. He invited me out to Miami with him and I gladly accepted. I met him in Dallas and we flew to Miami together. My last minute ticket placed me in coach and his ticket placed him in first class, but he switched his first class seat with the guy sitting next to me so he could sit next to me. In Miami, we stayed at his friends beautiful home. This is where we became sexually active and this is where I found out he was married. He snuck me through the house and it was all odd to me until I found a gift with Mashonda & Kasseem’s name on it. I asked him later on why he was cheating on her and he basically said she wasn’t being the wife he needed. He also said that if she asked if he was cheating, he would not lie to her, but he wouldn’t come right out and tell her.

After that trip, he invited me to meet him in Philly. I was picked up from the airport and taken to a club where he was performing at. Him and his crew jumped in the truck and we drove to VA from there. In VA, we got on a tour bus and drove to multiple destinations. After that, I flew back to Miami, he got sick and I got stranded in the Miami airport overnight. I flew back home to Houston the next day.

Later that week, he went on an overseas trip with Mashonda. I received a call from him saying “My wife is about to call you. Tell her nothing happened.” When Mashonda called me, this is exactly what I did. He did not contact me after that. They got a divorce and although we stayed in contact afterwards, there was nothing too drastic. I’m guessing this is when he was dating Alicia. Recently, we’ve been contacting each other (as you’ve all seen), but I haven’t physically seen him. We were making plans to, but I had to work and I wasn’t going to take off work to go see him. I live on my own, I have responsibilities and I strongly believe that if you are not contributing to those responsibilities, there is no reason for me to neglect them to entertain you. I am a very independent individual and the people who know me will tell you that I would never hold my hand out and ask for anything and if I do, I have a very hard time doing it.

Even though Swizz offered and offered and offered to buy me things, the only thing I accepted was plane tickets to go see him. He’s a wonderful man and I had a great time with him as well as a great relationship. Of course he’ll deny the whole thing and of course Alicia will stand up for her man. It’s understood.

Chris (As told to Bossip)

PREVIOUSLY: Reactions To Rumors of Swizz Beatz Allegedly Cheating On Wife Alicia Keys

“Haaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!! Some things are just LAUGHABLE!!!!!! Now, Let’s Continue to SHINE!! Everything else is a waste of time!! Sending love!,” subliminally tweeted Alicia Keys earlier this afternoon in response to an online tabloid site posting damning evidence that suggests her husband of one-year Swizz Beatz was (or still is) sexing and sexting a young songwriter behind her back.

Check out what some of the people I follow on Twitter had  to say about Swizz’s alleged double dipping and a picture of the his sideline piece after the jump!

Swizz’s creep: Christina Elizabeth

Since the very beginning there have been plenty instances of the pot calling the kettle a jump off amongst the cast of Basketball Wives. Things finally came to a head on Sunday night’s season finale when a barefoot Drunk Ass Tami came for Evelyn’s face after hearing her confess to sleeping with her ex-husband Kenny Anderson during Jennifer’s birthday dinner.

Teeny, grab the Solo cups! Tasia Mae’s monthly wig allowance won’t take a hit — for now at least.

RadarOnline.com reports that a judge ruled in favor of Antwaun Cook in his divorce proceeding against ex-wife Paula. The court found the pair’s separation date was September 14, 2009 — not June, 2010, as Paula previously claimed.

Paula had claimed Fantasia knew Antwaun was married and went ahead with their relationship anyway – thus the court hearings to uncover the truth.

No word on what effect the court decision will have on Paula’s plan to sue the singer under North Carolina’s unique Alienation of Affection law.

On the season premiere episode of Fantasia, For Real . . . We Still Talking About You And That Married Man? airing this Sunday night Tasia Mae’s mom Diane and Aunt Bunny (no relation to Blue Bunny or Blue Bell for that matter) confronts the singer about rumors regarding her relationship with boyfriend Antwaun.

Instead of putting on her emo mushroom hairpiece she should try a thinking cap on for size. Just a suggestion though.

Hospitalized last week for a suicide attempt, Fantasia is forging ahead with previously planned promotional appearances for her new album, Back to Me, her label J Records confirmed in a statement to Us Weekly.

“I can’t thank my fans enough for their prayers and support during such a challenging time,” the star said in Monday’s statement. “It has given me the motivation to get back to work . . . I put a lot of blood, sweat and tears into this album and I pray that everyone enjoys it as much as I do.”

Paula Cook, the estranged wife of Tasia’s boyfriend Antwaun Cook, was photographed on Sunday outside of her church in Charlotte, North Carolina. Her lawyer Tamela Wallace tells People magazine that the 36-year-old school teacher is ‘humiliated’ by her husband’s affair with Teeny’s cheese plates debtor.

“She is saddened and disheartened by the end of her marriage,” divorce attorney Tamela Wallace tells PEOPLE. “She’s embarrassed, and humiliated and distressed by the lack of respect that was shown for her marriage by Ms. Barrino.”

Pictures surfaced Friday of the American Idol season 3 winner meeting with Antwaun Cook in a local Charlotte, N.C., park – and being filmed by video cameras presumably for her VH1 reality show, Fantasia for Real.

“It’s that kind of brazen behavior that Mrs. Cook has had to endure for the last 11 months, until June of this year,” Wallace says. “This is something that has caused her emotional distress, pain, anguish.” (continue reading)

The power of Tasia Mae’s pressed panini is getting her into a lot of trouble these days.

In a statement released today by her manager Brian Dickens, the hood’s spelling bee champ says she is “not responsible” for breaking up a marriage — despite allegations from a North Carolina woman named Paula Cook who claims Fanny made sex tapes with her husband.

“Fantasia will weather this storm with the dignity and grace that she has exemplified throughout a life in which she has repeatedly overcome obstacles and challenges. Fantasia’s faith in God, herself and family remain as strong as ever.”

That statement should have included an alter call and a building fund envelope. Let the church say amen!

There’s really not much to say about  The-Dream and his new stranger bitch kicking it on a beach in the Caribbean.  I believe we all knew what the “situation” was when Sugar Bear and his wife Christina Milian went from calling the paparazzi every hour on the hour to follow them down Rodeo Drive shopping for designer double-snap onesies for Terius to not once being photographed together after the birth of their 5-month-old daughter Violet and that tired “we are working on our separate projects” talk.

Somewhere (most likely down at the welfare) Nivea is laughing.

Join me as I sip tea until the Mr. and Mrs. Nash release a joint statement of some sort addressing these candids.

(Radar)

The wife of NBA star Dwyane Wade has filed a lawsuit against the Miami Heat guard’s alleged actress girlfriend, claiming her conduct around their young children has inflicted emotional distress.

Siohvaughn Wade claims actress Gabrielle Union “engaged in sexual foreplay with Dwyane Wade” in front of Wade’s 8-year-old and 2-year-old sons while on an unsupervised visitation to the basketball star’s Miami home, according to a suit filed Tuesday in Cook County Circuit Court.

The suit also claims Wade’s oldest son was allowed to play unsupervised in or around the Miami home’s pool at night. Wade and Union ignored the boy, whose “screams and cries” eventually got the attention of Wade’s mother, Jolinda Wade, who took the boy inside, according to the suit.

The 8-year-old later told court appointed child representative Lester Barelay what happened and asked him “to put his father in jail…” so he would not have to return to the home, which he calls “the house where the woman kissing daddy lives,” the suit said.

The suit also claims the younger child nearly drowned while in his father’s care and Union drove the boys to the park with his oldest son in the front seat.

On one visitation, Wade allegedly orchestrated a meeting between Union and the boys, where he introduced the actress as his “girlfriend” and said “that is why your mom and I are going to divorce,” according to the suit.

Dwyane and Siohvaughn Wade have been “sweethearts” since they were 15 years old and currently still married but are involved in a divorce proceeding, the suit said.

The boy’s mother claims the sexual foreplay in front of the boys and the orchestrated meeting to introduce the children to their future stepmother caused emotional distress.

The older child has sought medical treatment for stress and anxiety, has developed nervous habits, experiences headaches, and is generally anxious to the point of “significant” hair loss causing bald spots, according to the suit. The boy is currently seeking court-mandated mental evaluations at the University of Chicago, the suit said.

Siohvaughn Wade and the boys are seeking more than $50,000 from Union at a trial. (source)